Your Vagina Should Smell And If Your Man Doesn't Like It DUMP Him

Dr Jen Gunter has spoken out about men demanding or expecting their partner's vagina to have an artificial smell.

The Canadian gynecologist revealed she once dumped a boyfriend for complaining about the smell of her genitals.

Dr Gunter has urged women not to feel ashamed and feel they have to resort to buying harmful products that create artificial odours.

She says they upset the vagina's natural pH balance and leave you at a greater risk of infections like gonorrhoea and even HIV.

She's had a strong opinion on the recent trends for women cleaning their vaginas with cucumbers and Vicks' Vaporub.

She wrote: 'I once dated a guy who insinuated my vagina did not smell right.


For example, he thought my hair would be better if it were straight.


Sadly I took the bait, it wasn't.


'He thought I would look better if I dressed a certain way. Again I took the bait. I just felt worse.'


When it came around to telling me how my vagina could be better it finally clicked that this is a form of control that men often use.'


Fortunately I am an appropriately confident vagina expert and I dumped his sorry ass.


Dr Gunter went on to urge women to not fall into the same trap.


She said: 'If you think you have a medical condition, see a doctor.

If your partner insinuates that an artificial smell is preferable to the smell of a normal vagina they are the one who has an issue.'


Telling women how they can be better is a classic way of tapping into body image issues and honestly in my personal opinion it is a form of abuse.


Dr Gunter has previously stressed that women should be aware that douches are unnecessary and even dangerous as our intimate areas are designed to clean themselves.


She once tweeted: 'A vagina takes care of itself. Like a self cleaning oven.



However, it states that 'a strong vaginal odor for instance, a "fishy" smell might be abnormal and could indicate a problem.'



WHEN SHOULD I SEE A DOCTOR OVER YOUR VAGINAL ODOR?



It is completely normal for your vagina to have a slight odor.


Abnormal vaginal odor that happens because of infection or another problem is usually associated with other vaginal signs and symptoms such as itching, burning, irritation or discharge.


Common causes of abnormal vaginal odor include:


*.Bacterial vaginosis, this is an overgrowth of normally occurring vaginal bacteria and the most common vaginal infection that causes a vaginal odor.


*.Poor hygiene


*.A retained or forgotten tampon left in place for several days


*.Trichomoniasis, a sexually transmitted infection also can lead to vaginal odor.

Chlamydia and gonorrhea infections usually don't cause vaginal odors. Neither do yeast infections.

Less commonly, abnormal vaginal odor may result from:


*.Rectovaginal fistula (an abnormal opening between the rectum and vagina that allows feces to leak into the vagina)


*.Cervical cancer


*.Vaginal cancer


If you're concerned about an abnormal or persistent vaginal odor, see your doctor for a vaginal exam especially if you have other signs and symptoms such as itching, burning, irritation or discharge.


In the meantime, to minimize vaginal odor:


1.Wash your external genital area: During regular baths or showers, use a very small amount of mild, unscented soap and lots of water.


2.Avoid douching: All healthy vaginas contain bacteria and yeast.

The normal acidity of your vagina keeps bacteria and yeast in check.

But douching can actually upset this delicate balance.

13 Things You Need To Teach Your “girl Child” At An Early Age

The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age are boldly listed below…

1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone’s laps no matter the situation including uncles.

2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.

3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as ‘my wife’

4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now s#xually abuse themselves.

5. Never force your child to visit any adult she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of s#x. If you don’t, the society will teach them the wrong values.

8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.

9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child visit(s) often.

10. Teach your 3 year old how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).

11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

12. Let your child understand the value of standing out of the
crowd.

13: Once your child complains about a particular person, don’t keep quiet about it.

Take up the case and show them you can defend them.

Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be. “THE PAIN LASTS A LIFETIME”

Help, I’m Afraid My Husband Will Kill Me – Wife Begs Court

A Nigerian woman has begged a court to save her life after alleging that the husband is threatening her life.

A Mapo Customary Court in Ibadan, Oyo State, on Monday granted the request of a housewife, Iyabo, to have her 10 years marriage to a commercial driver, Biodun Rasheed, dissolved.

The President of the court, Mr Ademola Odunlade, ordered Rasheed to pay his estranged wife N3, 000 as monthly feeding allowance in addition to another monthly N7, 000 for the education of their three children.

The payments, according to Odunlade, are to be made through the court.

Iyabo had earlier told the court that her husband was fond of excessive drinking and had often threatened to kill her.

 He beats me every day and at will. It is so easy for him to find an opportunity to beat me up.

“Whenever we have any misunderstanding, he is always quick to tell me he will kill me one day.

“My Lord, my life is at risk. I am afraid that he may carry out his threat to have me killed one day Iyabo told the court.

When asked to defend the allegations levelled against him, Rasheed told the court that he was ready to part ways with his estranged wife.

The couple, who live at Amuloko area of Ibadan, are blessed with two boys and a girl between the ages of four and nine years.

-NAN

WICKEDNESS!! 67-Year Old Man Defiles 8-Year Old Girl In Lagos

An Ikeja Magistrate’s Court, on Monday arraigned a 67 year old man, Francis Olamide for allegedly raping an 8-year-old girl.

The prosecutor, Insp. Clifford Ogu, told the court that the accused committed the offence on Sept. 23 at his residence, 33 Morebise St., Ayobo, Ipaja, a suburb of Lagos.

Ogu said that the accused called his neighbour’s daughter into his room on the pretext of sending her on an errand.

According to him the retiree put his finger into her private part and told her not to tell anyone, adding that the act resulted in the girl bleeding from her private.

”The minor who could not bear the pain anymore told her mother and the accused was consequently arrested,”‎ he said.

The offence contravened Section 135(1) (2) of the Criminal Law of Lagos State, 2015.

The accused pleaded not guilty to the charges.

The Chief Magistrates, Mrs. Taiwo Akanni, admitted him to bail of N200,000 with two sureties in like sum.

The case was adjourned to Nov. 22 for mention.

How Terrible!! This Man Tried To R@pe A Woman In An Elevator While Her Daughter Was Present (Photos)

This video was reportedly shot in an elevator in China, the unsuspecting woman is seen getting in with her daughter while a man followed behind.

As soon as they were in the elevator and it began ascending, the man can be seen checking out the woman’s butt.

Then when the elevator stopped and she tried to get out, he pulled her back inside, punched a button to shut the doors, then proceeded to attack the woman.

The man throws the woman to the floor and slaps her multiple times as she struggles. The elevator door opens multiple times after that but each time, he makes sure to prevent her from leaving and holds her down.

The struggle continues for long until the woman finally pulls her high-heeled shoe and attacks him with it.

More photos below :

My Private Part Is On Fire – Nigeria Girl Cries Out

A young Nigerian girl who has never had s*x in her life has opened up on an ailment she has been battling with for sometime.

Relationship blogger and adviser, Joro Olumofin has shared the story of girl who appears to have contacted a toilet disease.

According to her, she seriously scratches her v*gina and it has been discharging a foreign substance with an odour.

Read her story below:-

What Attracted You To Your Boyfriend/Girlfriend When You First Saw Him/Her?

As someone that had been in a relationship or is still in one relationship or the other, there are lots of things that got you attracted to the person you are currently dating.

Things like his/her look, financial statues, hair, dress sense, Spoken accuracy and the likes.

So what are(is) the thing(s) that attracted you to your boyfriend/girlfriend when you first saw him/her.

Let the comments begin!!

‘My Body Count Is Increasing, I Have Slept With 16 Guys This Year’ – Lady Cries Out

A young lady has taken to social media to lament about how she can’t turn down guys who want to have s-ex with her.

Sharing her story with popular relationship expert, Joro Olumofin, the 300 level student says she has slept with 16 guys this year and she fears it might increase before the year runs out.

She write;

“Help me, This year i have slept with 16 guys alone through my vag. Am fearful of my self. I don’t know how to say no to a guy even if he’s ugly and broke“,

She went on to say a love promise from a guy is enough for her to give him a blow job and have s-ex.

But now she’s tired of her old ways and wants to settle down with a God-fearing guy who will change her ways.

“I really want to settle down and marry this 2017, Can you intro me with a God fearing guy, someone who can change my way, who has a nice pay who lives in ikoyi or lekki.”

“I’m very fair (bleach needed), my hips never lied. I can cook all igbo and yoruba dishes”, she wrote.

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“Marriage Is Not A Do Or Die” – Rosy Meurer Shades Tonto Dikeh

Controversial Nollywood actress, Rosy Meurer, has taken to social media to advice ladies on marriage in what is seen as a reply to Tonto’s episode on abusive marriage.

The beautiful model who disclosed that she’s 25, and was accused by Tonto Dikeh of dating her hubby, Olakunle Churchill, revealed that marriage is a cliche and not that serious.

She said if your marriage gets broken, don’t throw it away, just fix it.

See screenshots below;

How To Stop Your Vàgina From Smelling Like Fish – Nigerian Woman Writes

A Nigerian woman who has three kids has lamented on the high cases of v*gina odour suffered by some ladies following complaints from their men.

V*gina odour could be embarassing especially for couple who practise oral s*x for increased pleasure. This fun part of lovemaking has been impeded due to the high rate of ‘fish odour’ emanating from the private parts of some ladies.

A concerned married woman was written 14 good measures that could be taken by ladies to combat the stench that could emanate from their private parts.

This is contained in her letter forwarded to a relationship blogger and adviser, Joro Olumofin as seen below:

She Left Me When There’s Nothing, Now I’m Rich She Wants To Come Back, Should I Accept Her Back? – Man Asks

Now i believe what people says that women only stay with you when you’re rich but when things turn upside down, they will walk away.

A 27-year-old man asked for advise on what to do about his wife who left him when there’s nothing but now that God has answered his prayers we wants to come back. He asked either to accept her back or send her away.

Read the few things he wrote;

Hi guys,

My name nah Jude Okoye, i be 27 year old. My wife leave me when i no get money but now wey baba God don answer my prayers she wan come back make we continue the relationship but i need people to advise me maybe make i accept her back abi make her pursue her commot.

Advise me abeg.

What is your advise for these man..your advise are accepted

Marrying A Rich Guy Doesn’t Guarantee A Happy Marriage”

Nollywood actress, Uche Ebere Agu, today took to her Instagram page to share a little piece of advice to her fans and Nigerians following the increase in divorce rate and domestic violence..

According to the actress, without God, dating for years, or having the best doctors, or marrying a rich guy are all vain..

She wrote;

Dating for years is not a guarantee to marriage… Falling sick does not mean you are going to die… Getting rich is not the definition of prosperity…

Building a nice house is not enjoying luxury… Sleeping on an expensive bed doesn’t bring you sound sleep…
Driving a new car is not a guarantee that you will reach where you are going… Wearing best clothes doesn’t mean they are fitting you….

Owing a family doctor doesn’t guarantee permanent good health… Being highly educated is not a sign of wisdom…

Marrying a rich guy doesn’t guarantee Happy marriage… Winning an argument does not mean that you are correct…

Whatsoever is done without the merit of Heaven is fake and temporal… He who builds without God is building for nothing,, n He who watches over a city without God watches in vain…

Not everything is possible with men But everything is possible with God… Involve God in Everything you do. Good morning everyone, Bless you all.

My Wife Masturbates, I Caught My Daughter Masturbating 3 Times

A 44-year-old businessman, Ekpolador Ebi, told an FCT High Court, Kubwa, that he would no longer tolerate his wife’s masturbation.

Ebi made this known when he testified in his divorce petition against his wife, Gloria Onajero, in Abuja on Wednesday.

He urged the court to end the marriage, which had produced two children because of his wife’s unfaithful and intolerable character.

The petitioner questioned the paternity of his children when he found out his wife’s extra-marital affair with one Richard.

He also noted that his wife’s “ugly character” has had a negative impact on their children.

He said, “She masturbates on a regular basis. I have warned her severally but she wouldn’t stop. Now it has affected my first daughter.

“I caught her on three occasions; I spoke to the mother about it and she promised that it would be resolved but it did not.

“Now, I noticed since we separated, that the children have developed confidence issues in school.

“My first daughter has also developed anger issues; she slams the door at you when you try to scold her. All these never used to be.”

Ebi also told the court that he ran away from his home because his wife and her mother frustrated all his good intentions.

According to him, his wife also beats the children with so much force and without mercy and when he tried to caution her, her mother supports her.

The petitioner urged the court to, aside dissolving the marriage, help him recover his property from his wife.

He said, “My wife came into this marriage with nothing, but when she left, she went away with everything I had.

“She took all the original documents of my property, including our marriage certificate.

“I want everything back, including my first daughters’ international passport which has a five-year-visa on it.

“I also want this court to order her to stop calling me at odd hours. She calls me around 1 a.m, 2 a.m or 3 a.m for no good reason.”

Counsel to the respondent, Mr Festus Ukpe, applied to the court to grant them two dates of adjournment to enable him and his client prepare their defence.

The presiding judge, Justice Bello Kawu, adjourned the matter till March 21 and March 30.

(NAN)

What Will You Do If A Lady Is In Love With You And You Don’t Love Her In Return?

This is the unedited version of the mail i received :

A lady I met two months ego, fell deeply in love with me, and was very obsess with me, she does crazy things in the name of love, but I don’t love her in return.

She is not up to my standard, she uneducated, she lies, she form what she is not just to impress me. she dress funny to impress, she has damaged her body just to look fair because I like fair ladies.

I am tired of her harassment, and obsessions because I don’t love her. I try to talk sense into her as a friend, but she hardly learn.

Please what do I do, have some one I truly admires for a wife, your suggestions and advice is highly appreciated.

No insult pls.

See The Leaked Photo Of A Nigerian University Female Student

I wonder what some girls usually think when they allow these guys do a tape of them or even a picture without clothes on.

It’s just so unimaginable. This is a student of a Nigerian University being exposed by her lover. This is a lover who at one point or the other claimed to have loved her.

SICK!! Jealous Husband Slits Wife And His Own Throats (Details)

A resident of Makata, Nakisunga Sub-county, Mukono District Ugandan, identified as Musa kisakye has attacked his wife, Mrs Olivia Nangonzi after she informed him that her parents have enrolled her for a nursing course in the United States.

Kisakye allegedly attacked his wife with a knife and left a deep cut on her neck.

According to the police District commander, Mr Rogers Seguya, after committing the crime, Kisakye who thought he had accomplished his mission, used the same knife to slice his neck.

The mother of one said “He thought he had killed me. Actually I was too weak and I could not scream. That was when he also cut his neck.”

She said, “I was preparing to set off to America this very week. Unfortunately, my husband wanted to kill me, claiming that he wanted me to stay at home without upgrading my skills.”

see how pastor encouraged girl to prostitution - lady open up

A 24-year-old girl yesterday painted a sordid picture of how a pastor she fellowshipped with at the Heavenly Ambassadors’ Ministries Inc. lured her into prostitution.

Florence (surname withheld), a former stylist, dancer and singer while with the church located at Isihor on the busy Benin-Lagos Expressway in Ovia North East Local Government Area of Edo State, said she was tricked while she was 18 years old by Pastor Endurance Eghoze to travel to meet his sister based in Russia with the hope of assisting her to look for a greener pasture overseas but ended up in the web of street hawkers there.

Florence said she worked tirelessly for four years (2013 to 2017) to pay an agreed sum of $45,000 (about N17.1 million) to her ‘Madam’ and trafficker, Ms. Vivian Eghoze, who later dumped her on the streets of Russia before she was deported home in February.

Already, operatives of the state police command have arrested Vivian and her brother, Endurance.

The arrest was made possible following a tip-off by an Edo-based Non-Governmental Organisation (NGO), Initiative for Youths Awareness on Migration, Immigration, Development and Reintegration (IYAMIDR).

When contacted, the state Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO), DSP Moses Nkombe, confirmed their arrest.
He said: “The matter is being investigated by the police.”

Florence, who has been reunited with her family, is begging for urgent assistance from good-spirited individuals and government.

She said after paying her ‘madam’ the huge sum, she is also battling to save herself from a mysterious ailment.

Vivian and Endurance have allegedly trafficked over 45 girls for prostitutions overseas.

The victims said they were daily subjected to excruciating conditions in cold of the nights to meet customers without anything to show for their years of enslavement.

According to them, even their parents and relations wallow in hunger, poverty and emptiness except for the lavish lifestyles of their hosts and their exotic cars and eye-pooping mansions.

Florence explained that her trouble started in late 2012 when her mother amid cries and wailing narrated her plight of being locked in huge debt to their pastor, who is also the second in command of the church, who quickly cashed in on the ugly situation to convince her to join his sister in Russia.

She added that a few days before she travelled to Lagos to meet Vivian’s close relations, her mother who was in Benin compelled her to take an oath of secrecy after collection of her pubic hair, pants and braziers while ‘madam’s uncle also raped her in a hotel room where she was lodged preparatory for Russia and sternly warned her not to tell anyone about the illicit act.

She said: “I had to borrow money to do my passport. She keeps calling and assuring me that all will be well. I was made to take oath of allegiance.

“I borrowed N30,000 from a cooperative society, to do my passport and I told her (Ms Vivian) that my passport was ready and she said okay. And from there I proceeded to another level at which she called Endurance that they would be the ones to run everything and that my mind should be at rest. After some weeks, she called me again and gave me words of encouragement. That was how we ended our talk.”

Hey Ladies!!! See 4 Things A Woman Must Not Tell A Man In Bed… No. 1 Is Epic And Very Important!

When a woman falls for a man, she expects him to love her totally. However, in a bid to warm up, there are things you should refrain from telling a man about yourself!

Sex & Relationship Expert, Dr Pam Spurr, warns that there are some things you should really keep to yourself if you don’t want to ruin the moment or lose your man.

Check out the following list.

1. Don’t discuss ex-boyfriend’s pennis size with a new man! The fact that you couldn’t have sex for a week after being with a man of larger penis size is something he doesn’t want to know. If you think telling him you were in pain for that week proves you aren’t a size queen, it doesn’t. He’ll start worrying he doesn’t measure up.

2. Don’t disclose how many men you’ve had cex with! You’ve just had great sex and tell him that of all 10, 20 or 30 guys you’ve slept with, he’s the best. Ugh!? Until you trust that he’s not the judgemental type, keep the numbers to yourself. After all, it’s none of his business.

3. Don’t discuss your monthly moans. Jokingly announcing to him that he’s lucky he just missed the time of the month when you turn into a bit of a monster might cause him some anxiety. Men are usually embarrassed to talk about monthly moans with a new girlfriend.

4. Avoid nerve-wracking pillow talk. One sex survey found that over two thirds of women worry about what to say after having sex with a new guy. New sex can be scorching hot, plus you love the post-coital cuddles. But you don’t want to mess up the bedroom bliss by saying the wrong thing!

See the harmful effect of sleeping in a bra.. number 3 will shock you

A bra is worn to support the br**sts, provide modesty and increase the sense of security a women feels. It temporarily affects the shape of the br**sts, such as uplifting them to create a cleavage.

In the 1930s, a boyish look was fashionable, so bras were worn to flatten the chest. For larger women, it also provides welcome control. However, there has been a strong dialogue about the harmful effects of wearing a bra, especially during sleep.

(1) Restlessness

Wearing a bra can be irritating for some women at the best of times, so sleeping could enhance this feeling. Women who sleep on their back may feel the bra catch press into their skin, causing discomfort. An underwire bra could also dig into the underside of the chest tissue, causing scratching or red grooves. The effect of these problems is waking through the night and continuous discomfort.

(2) Weakened Ligaments

Although support is a primary reason to wear a bar, it can actually be adverse to a woman’s health. The br**sts do not develop strong ligaments because they do not take the weight of their own load. Therefore, br**sts can sag more if a bra is constantly worn. If the bra is worn both day and night, the br**sts do not have the opportunity to use the ligaments at all, and this worsens the problem.

(3) Cancer

The book “Dressed to Kill,” published in 1995, suggested that a bra inhibits lymphatic drainage, increases chest temperature and levels of prolactin. Consequently, the authors Singer and Grismaijar proposed that this increases the risk of a woman developing cancer.

However, Louise Brinton at the National Cancer Institute suggests this is not a viable, scientific explanation because it is does not relate to endogenous hormone levels that are associated with cancer. Therefore, although disputed, some thinkers believe that wearing a bra contributes to cancer, and wearing it all the time would increase this risk.

See 3 Dirty Habits Of Nigerian University Girls That Will Surprise You

Dirty habits of Nigerian campus girls – Naija campus babes na wahala.com! I wonder when they will realize that a campus is NOT meant to be a battleground for the finest and fittest.

They carry themselves in an over-pompous and unpleasant manner that simply displays their sheer ignorance.



1. Bribery

It’s pointless! These campus babes believe that they can get away with bribery and blackmailing people to get what they want. They believe that lying and mischief will be the key to their academic success while on campus.

2. Makeup overload

Sisters, relax! The makeup isn’t running away. Some of the faces on university campuses look like failed arts and crafts projects.

3. 30 inch extensions and above

Some people are naturally blessed with long hair while others aren’t. Those of us that are lacking (myself included) love extensions. You can change your look as much as you like with different lengths of weaves and hair pieces. When it exceeds 30 inches,
I advise that you take a step back and evaluate what is really going on. 30 inches itself is a stretch!